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[quote=Anonymous]Others here are going to have better ideas about how to handle the conversation but I'd note that you should check, this minute, and be sure there's no way he can put the house on the market without your approval. It's been decades since I bought a house and I've never had to sell one, so sorry if this is off the mark, but I'd want first and foremost the assurance he can't sell it out from under you while you decide what to do. [u]Not[/u] assurance [i]from him[/i] that he [i]"won't"[/i] proceed without you -- I'm talking about assurance that he [i]cannot[/i] proceed without you. Depends on whose names are on the mortgage or title, I guess? Sorry if it's a moot point, it was just the first thing that occurred to me. You can't have breathing space to consider how to tell him "no" unless you are sure he can't steamroll this sale.

And sadly, OP, it does sound as if you are ready to be done with this marriage unless he has a true "come to Jesus" wake-up call and would rather lose the move than lose you.

Do you and he have kids?[/quote]

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