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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They can very much expect you all to attend and participate,  but that's not an order and you don't have to do it all.

If you can't find child care or it's too expensive to pay for your family of four plus someone for child care,  find a compromise.   Maybe you can't be in the wedding or maybe they help with expenses.

Since it's a year away, talk to them now about your dilemma and see if they'll compromise.   Anyone can ask for anything,  but that doesn't mean they get it.

Best wishes, OP.  I don't mean to be harsh, but I think they're asking too much. [/quote]

And if it was a no kids wedding, everyone would be complaining about that too. It’s OP’s brother’s what wedding and they want to include the brother, his wife, and the kids. It’s a beautiful thing, it’s taking place at an apparently nice place, it’s a year away, and OP has a nanny.

Start planning and saving now, bring the damned nanny, and go and enjoy the nice wedding of a close relative already.  [/quote]

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