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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The vast majority of people have no self-awareness when talking to other people. They are just saying whatever pops into their head. I mean, it could still be meant in a mocking way (maybe they heard you say the word and thought "that's dumb" and then they immediately said it with that one because it's what they were thinking about). Or they could just be using the world most readily available to them. They are just opening their mouths and letting the most obvious things come out. This is how most people communicate and it's why talking to a lot of people is annoying or frustrating. This happened with a friend of mine a few years ago, who kept bringing up this other woman we know who I did NOT get along with, every time I saw my friend. Finally I just asked, "Why do you always bring Larla up to me? You know I'm not friends with her and we don't like each other, so it seems like you are trying to stir the pot by always mentioning her to me." And my friend said it wasn't intentional, it's just that whenever she saw that person, she'd think of me because I didn't like her, and whenever she saw me, she'd think of that woman because she didn't like me. And she'd compulsively bring each of us up to the other. And I believe her. I think she wasn't meaning to stir the pot, she was just saying the first thing she thought of, which would happen to be to mention someone she knew was a sore spot for me. It was annoying but even after we had this conversation, she still did it. It was compulsive.[/quote] This is Act 1 of a romcom[/quote]
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