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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your vindictive mother could disinherit your children if you challenge her decision. She might do that anyway, especially if your sister influences your mother to leave it all to her. My suggestion is to assume your children will get nothing and plan your financial lives accordingly. BTDT and it is what is keeping me strong and mentally healthy now that my parent passed and me and my children completely disinherited in favor of my sibling. It still is emotionally devastating. [/quote]

I figured we would do it after she passes away, but to be honest I am not sure it would be so terrible is she disinherited. I would be thrilled to have say college paid for, help with their first homes, money to pay medical bills if there is every a serious issue, but we also are planning for that already. My concern besides having someone disturbing managing the money is also with them getting too much too soon and not learning the joy that comes with earning your money and saving and budgeting for a trip and really having a strong sense of self-efficacy.[/quote]

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