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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. We've discussed the remote cabin option but it's still really, really not what he wants. He gets that it may be the compromise we end up with, but he's clear that what he truly wants is a move so that his every day life is out of the city. Paying and maintaining a second house around here doesn't sound very appealing, especially as our kid enters the phase of local activities and birthday parties on weekends. He's not trying to be difficult, but his honest opinion (and I agree) is that a second home near here will not scratch this itch and may be more stressful than helpful. If we stay in DC, we'll use all vacations and the summer month to go to his ideal locations (and they're my ideal vacation spots too)...but it'll still feel like a pretty big loss to him. Basically, if we stay here, he loses the opportunity to put down roots and live life in an area that he loves....and if we move, I lose the opportunity to have a career I love. Ugh.[/quote]
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