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[quote=Anonymous]Whenever we have had issues with work done or proper procedures not being followed we have always tried to work it out first with the person responsible be it the foreman on site. I always try to be considerate of not getting people in trouble with their bosses but the last few times I have done this recently the people responsible have pushed back and when I stood my ground they took it to their supervisor and their supervisor backed them up. By waiting to escalate this to the supervisor I gave them an opportunity to tell their version of a story and the supervisor made a decision without even hearing what we had to say and in one case the supervisor even refused to speak with us about it. Is the lesson that I am an idiot and I should have immediately brought up the issue to the supervisor? What is it with people doing this? What else am I doing wrong? These are all cases where any normal person would have agreed with us, but I wonder if I am an easy target for a person who is in the wrong making me out as unreasonable or wrong because of the way I look or act. Need advice to figure out what I could be doing wrong. [/quote]
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