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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Tonight is a tough one. Asking him to change his long standing plans last minute  would be objectionable to me but I’d do it. As to everything else, What would you rather
 him do instead?  Asking him not to plan when there’s nothing else going on is kind of crazy. [/quote]
I don’t want him to not do these things, that’s not my point. But he has been enjoying so much time freedom, I just figured it would be nice if he could accommodate MY time the way I do his. This felt do-able. He’s been there all day, it’s not unreasonable to say you have to leave to do something for your wife. It’s not like I keep him on a leash. In fact, that’s what makes me most angry! He does whatever, yet he can’t even give me this. [/quote]
Op here, and the look he gave me when he said “I’ll try” was like, “and if I don’t, what are you going to do?”

And what AM I going to do? He’s right. Nothing. I’ll be disappointed, but apparently I have no right to even that.[/quote]

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