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[quote=Anonymous]H is going through sort of a stressful time at work, so I’ve been encouraging him do take a lot of time to relax and enjoy his hobbies. But now I think I’ve enabled him to be unflinchingly selfish, to the point where I think he thinks it’s his right to do whatever he wants without consideration for me. I can’t count on both hands the number of “me” things, some short and some all afternoon, he’s engaged in over just this month. Yes, we have kids, but they are teens and can manage.

Case in point today, he took the day off to attend a convention with some friends, related to an interest they share. His event was planned in advance, but I had something important to me pop up, and I asked him if he could be home from his convention by 7 to go with me. Mind you, he left the house at 10a, so that would give him over six hours with his friends at this thing before he needed to head back. He told me “I’ll try to make it.”

I’m assuming he won’t, and I’m sort of at my wits end. He has a golf outing this weekend, too, and I’m pissed.

I don’t even know what advice I am seeking, but curious what advice you’d give me. [/quote]

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