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[quote=Anonymous]I don’t feel OBLIGATED at all. But I do help them a ton. My reasons are, first, they’re much younger than me, and I feel maternally toward them. Second, we grew up poor and I managed to lift myself out. I am giving them the same rope they would get if we were raised UMC. Third, I like to help. I love tyenF and I have optimism this is going somewhere great for them. But like you I don’t want to do bandaids. I am paying for one sibling’s living expenses in nursing school, for example. I paid moving expenses for a new (lucrative) job for the other. Only structural stuff I believe is the right direction. All this to say I wouldn’t help your siblings if I were you. [/quote]
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