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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. It was so hard. I was crying all morning and then burst into tears right after. It was a LOT. To see the reality of this moment for her that I have been imaging and dreaming of for years and years. To see her glow with pride and hold her bump. Her adoring husband, everyone showering her with presents. Pregnant not even 4 months after her wedding!

Meanwhile my husband was a nightmare. Cold and mean, telling me he can’t handle all my feelings and that it’s too heavy and too much. And that I am toxic for being jealous of my sister. And I’m ruining my own life. He hasn’t given me a single hug or made a single soothing gesture. [/quote]

Are you in therapy? It sounds like you are having a rough time (maybe your husband is too). If your spouse is your only emotional support, it may be too much for him. I don't think you should have to go to your sister's baby shower when you are struggling. If she is not a person who can understand why this is difficult for you, just tell her that you have a stomach bug.  [/quote]

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