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The travel part matters IF this is totally out of character, unusual behavior for him.

If it was: Blame horrible jet lag. It can make some people nutty for a time. Tell your DH you know he's acting out of character and you both need more naps. Then laugh it off.

If this is NOT uniquely unusual behavior, then:

You have a problem with over-explaining to him and checking in with him on trivial things that Do. Not. Matter. Don't ever call and explain stuff this trivial again.

Much more seriously, if this is just one among many cases of his doing this: He has a problem with overreacting hugely and turning simple personal choice(s?) into "You are disrespecting ME!" The latter is a sign of someone who is self-focused and taking tiny, insignificant things (chicken kebabs?!) as personal disses toward him. A bad trait and a bad sign--if, and the "if" is important, he has done this kind of thing before. People who turn day to day stuff like kebabs versus thighs into "You disrespected me" are misusing the concept of "respect" in a very petty and personal way.

I"m hoping this is out of character and you both simmer down and can laugh about it later.[/quote]

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