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[quote=Anonymous]Tell her you cannot take on the burden of reassuring her. She needs a therapist or a trusted friend. You will be giving her updates as follows: Green = all is well Yellow = things aren’t super easy, but all manageable Red = things are difficult You will give her one update a day, with the “color” for the day AND as much information as you are willing to share for that day. If you need her help, you will ask for her specific help. If she presses and isn’t satisfied with one update a day, you will drop to an update every other day, then every third day, etc., until she can demonstrate that she understands and respects the way you choose to update. Good luck. I’m sorry it is so difficult. [/quote]
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