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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes people do this. We are doing IVF/Surrogacy and it is expensive enough that you should consider using the IVF method that has the highest likelihood of success, even if it is not a natural cycle. The woman who carries the child, in many states, will have superior parental rights until such time as all legal matters are resolved. For example, in Md the name of the woman who carried the child will go n the birth certificate as the mother. Revising the birth certificate requires the fling of papers with the state. [/quote] The mom who doesn't carry the child has to adopt the child in order to change the birth certificate. It's not just filing papers with the court. [/quote] Hmmm...this wasn't true for us. We are a heterosexual couple who used a surrogate to have our children. We live in MD and our case was filed in the Montgomery County system. We had a pre-birth order filed that established that we were the genetic parents of the child, that the surrogate had no biological ties to the child and was only a gestational carrier and our names were court-ordered to be put on the birth certificate. They were. The biological mother did not need to adopt the child and her name was put on the birth certificate. This was all done in the third trimester, but before birth. Copies of the court papers were sent to the hospital legal department for them to submit when they filed for the birth certificate. [/quote]
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