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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Having kids costs money. I don’t think it is fair to expect one parent to take on 100% of that responsibility. Just like one parent shouldn’t take on 100% of all hands on time. You need to contribute to the financial expenses of being an adult / having kids. That is great he is reducing to hours to be more hands on. I don’t think you can complain when your contributions are zero. Just like a 0% hands on parent can’t complain about how the 100% parent is parenting. If you want say, contribute.[/quote] This is insane. Should he get zero say in how the kids are raised, since she’s doing all the childcare? Some of y’all are demented. [/quote] If a parent does zero in terms of hands on care - never interacts with their kids, doesn't ever lift a finger, literally 0% - then no, they don't get say in how the kids are raised. If they want a say, they can be involved and drive the kids or do the laundry or make a lunch or change a diaper or read a bedtime story or cuddle on the couch or actually get to know their kids and be involved with them. [/quote]
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