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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The concerning thing is that you don’t know how the family money is being spent. Retirement and college planning is critical. You should be a key participant in the overall financial budgeting and setting of priorities. I don’t think you spouse is necessarily being stingy but he is being controlling and potentially selfish and abusive. [/quote] Retirement and college funds are being maxed out through the 401k. My spouse keeps too many liquid assets so I have been giving reminders to put those into CDs but that hasn't happened yet. Meanwhile I am overdrawing our shared bank account every few months because it keeps running low.[/quote]
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