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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You should just tell him you are quitting and looking for a new job. Do you have any savings? Don’t wait for permission to live your life, but also, don’t jump to divorce.[/quote]

We have savings but we will have to take the kids out of school and move. It really requires both of us to plan. I can in theory just decide to upend our lives - but it would be so much better if he could summon some vestige of caring and being part of any type of big picture decision making. Right now it’s like having a very neutral nanny that lives with you and would be inconvenienced but not devastated if you were to cease to be. [/quote]
Is he neurodiverse as well? Maybe he is given the lack of empathy, inability to plan or do things, and poor communication skills.

You’re in a pickle then. Others of this in this pickle either quit to work on the kid(s) and home, or work but hire live in nanny, 2x a week housekeeper, therapists for all, drivers. We also detach from our “husbands”, sideline them like they want, and ignore them like they ignore the family.  Then gray divorce once the last kid it out. Also, make a point of socializing with your own friends after 8pm, and other families with your kids or at least your NT kid.

Grieve first. This is not the marriage or situation you signed up for. [/quote]

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