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Reply to "Dh has stopped pretending to care and it’s a real bummer "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You should just tell him you are quitting and looking for a new job. Do you have any savings? Don’t wait for permission to live your life, but also, don’t jump to divorce.[/quote] We have savings but we will have to take the kids out of school and move. It really requires both of us to plan. I can in theory just decide to upend our lives - but it would be so much better if he could summon some vestige of caring and being part of any type of big picture decision making. Right now it’s like having a very neutral nanny that lives with you and would be inconvenienced but not devastated if you were to cease to be. [/quote] I kind of think you should do it. If you get divorced, alimony and child support will be based on your current salary, and you will be trapped in this job. Better to do it while you’re still married. [/quote]
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