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[quote=Anonymous]We have a white board where we write tasks for the weekend. We both add to it and we both check it and do stuff. That way it’s not me always asking him. Also, he writes stuff on it that I would never “see” and don’t care about, so it’s a way to remember DH does stuff that I don’t always mentally tally. But, we have a similar dynamic to yours OP with driving kids to appointments (and one is SN with multiple appointments a week- most late afternoon or early evening). I have the more flexible job, so I don’t mind doing more than half. He’ll usually do it if I ask but rarely volunteers and never proactively let’s me know he won’t be able to do. So it does set up a bad dynamic where him doing less than half of it still feels like he’s doing me a favor. Every once in while I rant at him about defaulting to me doing it all, and he gets better for a while. [/quote]
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