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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a question that I really want the truthful answer.  If I asked IRL, I'd probably get a very nice polite answer.  So, here goes:

I am overweight.  I am not rich.  I have cankles and nobby-knees.  and I'm old.

I am trying to lose weight, but of course it takes time (I've lost 15lbs so far, but I'm only losing about a lb a week, and I'm still fat).  I like the look of nice things, but can't afford them.  But, if I see a purse with the LV logo, or a coach-type purse at Marshalls I'll get it because I think it's pretty - certainly not to pretend I have something I don't.  I have also been wearing sleevless or short sleeves.  I'm usually conservative (I never wear shorts or shorter skirts - always capris or capri-length skirts) but it's so dang hot outside, it's hard to find cool tops with sleeves that go to your elbow.

So, my question is, when you see me on the metro, or walking on the street or in the elevator with my fat arms exposed, fake LV or coach purse and non-designer capri pants, do you really think the things you say here on DCUM?  I really just thought of myself as a non-event.  I really thought that the skinny-rich-designer women just don't even notice or care that I walked by (or are in the elevator).  I am genuinely curious.  Do you spend minutes (or seconds) or whatever really having a judgy thought about me or am I a non-issue IRL and the judgy stuff just comes out when the topic of exposed fat arms, fake designers, or cheap dress comes up.  then you give it some thought and respond truthfully?  [/quote]

I think all women are beautiful in their own way.  Why do you even care about what some DCUM woman thinks?  Just because someone is wealthy or Ivy League doesn't make their opinion count any more than someone else.[/quote]

Says the woman from Podunk Community College rockin' the Dress Barn maxi...[/quote]

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