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[quote=Anonymous]First off, this is not a straight relationship, so hopefully that's ok here in the relationships section, since the lgbtq section doesn't get much traction.

I (28F) started dating a woman (28) a week and a half ago. Up until now, we have both had relationships with men, but we identify as bi. We are both pretty feminine. We met on a dating app. Our conversation over text has been great, but not too flirty or sexual like other men/women have been by now w/me. I'm fine with this, as I'm enjoying actually getting to know her.

Our first date was about 8 days ago, we went out for brunch in our downtown area (not dc area, west coast). The conversation was great, we then walked around and looked at the houses, and found a private area to smoke a joint. As we walked back to my car, she gave me a hug. As she pulled away, I pulled her in and kissed her. Just a quick one. She later said she was happy about it and didn't mean to act so silly as if she didn't expect a kiss, said she was just high from the joint. She said had a huge smile as she walked back to her car.

A few days later, we went to a drive in movie to see Barbie. This time we didn't touch or hug, but again the convo was great, with a little flirting. I guess I expected her to kiss me since I did it the first time? When we hugged goodbye in the car, she pulled away and went inside. But once I got home, she was talking about the next movie she wants to see with me.

Since then, it's been a week, she was with her sister who was visiting her and went home yesterday, as well as started a new job. We have plans to hang out on Saturday. It will be her birthday weekend, so I want to make it special. Should I make sure I make the move first? Or just do as much as I can to make the moment right, hoping she will do it? Over text she has been flirty here and there. Sent me feet pics while she was in a hot tub with her sister, talked about sex briefly. Maybe I need to send a selfie? I haven't sent one yet, she's just seen pics on the app. [/quote]

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