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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is it a midlife crisis if your sex life has been unfulfilling and emotional intimacy has been missing for most of the marriage? Maybe I’m having a bit of a midlife crisis. Or maybe I’m just finally becoming less afraid to voice things I have felt for some time?

I’m trying to get my shit together (to the pp). Put myself in therapy, etc. If I was depressed, I’d gladly go on meds. I will continue working on my marriage. And just hope that it becomes obvious one way or the other to stay put or leave the marriage. [/quote]

It is a midlife crisis because it dies not make sense. He is handsome, great father, intelligent, etc.

So what is missing? What are you working on since you claim you are working hard? What are your options. Meet someone new every 2-5  years?

You are being lazy and immature. Otherwise, you'd have an action plan about what it is that you are missing and the steps you are taking to get to the right place with this person that you have only positive things to say. It sounds like you are chasing butterfly feelings. You'd leave here and find a new guy, then leave again. Those kinds of feelings ne er last.

You can make a choice to be happy here in this good relationship that you have of you grow up and be honest about why you are feeling this way. Did you meet someone else? Are you holding some grudges from the past? Do you need some more one on one time? Etc.
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