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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Christmas--beyond religion--is about children.

Grandparents at Christmas create great memories for children.

Grandparents don't last forever, but your children's Christmas memories will last for the rest of their lives.

You, your husband, and your children are very fortunate to have both sets of in-laws/grandparents alive and willing to spend Christmas day with you. In order to alleviate some concerns about waiting on the in-laws, why not order prepared food to serve in addition to whatever you like to prepare.

Is it selfish of you ? Yes with respect to your children and to your in-laws it is a bit selfish and clearly lacking in Christmas spirit.[/quote]
This is BS and I’ll prove it to you.

My grandparents died when I was 14. Not too long ago I was reminiscing with my mom about my memories of Christmas at my grandparents house, and how I loved those long Christmas days, spending the morning opening presents at home with cinnamon rolls, and then spending the evening with my cousins—the smell of the fireplace, grandpa’s traditional dinner, the kids’ table—until it was pitch black outside. I always fell asleep in the car on the way home.

She told me I was mistaken, we never spent Christmas there, it was always Christmas Eve and we’d head there right after Christmas Eve Mass. For twenty years I had assumed it was Christmas Day. It wasn’t. And my memories are still just as joyous.

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