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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I found this out last night.  She is a very accomplished professional and someone I looked up to and considered a good friend, although I no longer live in the same geographic area.  I provided emotional support about a year and an half ago when she decided to separate from her husband.  She said he was not “emotionally available” or words to that effect.

I just went to visit her yesterday at her new house to meet her “new boyfriend:” Turns out they bought the house together earlier this year, and his kids from his marriage are there for the weekend and have rooms there. The couple obviously are very familiar, and she let it slip that they have been together “since the height of the pandemic” (which I assume is the 2021 timeframe).  Her divorce finalized late last year; he was still married as of fall last year.  Maybe they low key dated while separating and jumped into the house once divorced. Who knows.

His two kids and her kid seemed really down, while the couple seemed happy.  I’m not sure if I’m reacting to feeling bad for the kids, or the charade that this is a “new boyfriend” or her husband for being described as “emotionally unavailable” when she’s the one who stepped out. My feeling is that she’s selfish at the expense of the kids and the spouses involved.  I[b]’m feeling like she’s not the kind of person I want to be friends with anymore, which is something I never expected to feel about her. [/b][/quote]

So don't still be friends with her? I'm sure if she saw this post she wouldn't want anything to do with your judgment anyway. [/quote]

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