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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband is cheating on me. I’ve known for months and haven’t told anyone. I love my husband with every fiber of my being. I cannot leave. Leaving would hurt much more than staying. I doubt he will stop. I don’t want to break up our family, and in spite of his cheating i still care very much for him. I have to figure out a way to accept and pull through.[/quote]

I almost cried for you reading this.
Maybe show him what you have written?

Hey husband. If you love this woman, stop and do the right thing![/quote]

I don't mean to sound like an ahole, but why would he stop?  It isn't like this is some big revelation, he knows his wife loves him and he chose to cheat instead.  So now he knows that she's not going to leave him because he's cheating and that she is going to have to learn to live with it...why would he stop?  A cheater knows they are going to hurt their spouse, they just don't care because they are selfish jerks.  Now he has the green light to get the best of both worlds?  Yeah, he's not going to stop.

I'm sorry OP and I appreciate your honesty.  I think for now, the best thing you can do is take care of yourself.  Get therapy, find some hobbies, and maybe tell one of your closest friends so you have some support.  [/quote]

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