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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you went on a few dates with a guy and everything was perfect but you found out he was a 40 year old virgin - with no explanation of why other than "it just never happened" - would you be put off? [/quote] If you are hoping for anything resembling a normal healthy sexual and emotional relationship, this is not just a red flag, it's an absolute deal breaker. End it now. Taking a wild guess, the guy is either a pedophile or was himself a victim of S/A so horrendous as a child that he completely freezes up when things get even close to possibly being sexual with a woman. Or maybe he is a deeply closeted gay. Or maybe it's some other kind of weird psychological problem which manifests in this way. This is way more than just being a very shy person, and probably, something sinister and unpalatable is underlying his aversion to sex.[/quote]
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