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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is it unreasonable for me to have anxiety over things like this? I've had a doctor, with whom I've had a pretty good relationship with for more than a decade while my health issue  was minor- but things have changed in a big way- my meds are changing, many with risk/benefit types outcome,  and the risks are big.  Very big. My condition is frightening,  too. This doctor  seems surprised that I have questions, fears, etc, and makes me feel kind of childish. He also forgets some pretty big details, and if I ask, he'll say, "Oh yeah, that too..etc." ( WHAT?a :shock: )
I'm already frightened by my condition,  and apparently asking questions is an annoyance or something.

I already know the social rules- don't bring things up in social settings as our friends  don't need an organ recital at our age, don't bother our kids so we aren't a burden to them. So, no outlets.

I just could use a hug and some good advice and confidence. Like I'm 10 years old.   Am I wrong? I have had several tearful nights. I know my age,  but is that relevant?  No caring anymore for the older ladies over 55? Someone here will call me a self absorbed boomer, I am sure.  Fine- I'll just ignore it. 
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I'm 52 and experiencing a similar situation, although my health issue may not be as serious as yours. No one wants to hear about it including my dr. She hates questions, apparently, but this is my life. What is helping me cope is finding a new doctor, getting a second opinion on my treatment and joining a facebook group focused on people with my condition. I wish you strength as you navigate your health condition and hugs from an internet stranger.[/quote]

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