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[quote=Anonymous]Is it unreasonable for me to have anxiety over things like this? I've had a doctor, with whom I've had a pretty good relationship with for more than a decade while my health issue  was minor- but things have changed in a big way- my meds are changing, many with risk/benefit types outcome,  and the risks are big.  Very big. My condition is frightening,  too. This doctor  seems surprised that I have questions, fears, etc, and makes me feel kind of childish. He also forgets some pretty big details, and if I ask, he'll say, "Oh yeah, that too..etc." ( WHAT?a :shock: )
I'm already frightened by my condition,  and apparently asking questions is an annoyance or something.

I already know the social rules- don't bring things up in social settings as our friends  don't need an organ recital at our age, don't bother our kids so we aren't a burden to them. So, no outlets.

I just could use a hug and some good advice and confidence. Like I'm 10 years old.   Am I wrong? I have had several tearful nights. I know my age,  but is that relevant?  No caring anymore for the older ladies over 55? Someone here will call me a self absorbed boomer, I am sure.  Fine- I'll just ignore it. 
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