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[quote=Anonymous]The most helpful thing my mom has done is being transparent with her assets. We have a spreadsheet, I have account numbers, usernames and passwords. I know where everything is and who to contact if needed. And I agree that I refuse to burden my children with constant need for attention when I’m older. I’ve been doing the obligatory twice a week visits with my mom for almost a year. It’s a lot. And it’s constant guilt tripping that I’m not there enough. One thing I would have done differently- not required two independent doctors to certify she is unable to handle her affairs. She trusts me and it was a little hassle to get have to reach out to two doctors for the letters I needed for a POA. [/quote]
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