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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How old are you both?

If he's under 30, yeah, of course. He's not going to commit to someone when he's leaving in three months! If you think there's potential, you can see him casually for the next three months, keep in touch to some degree when he's gone, pick dating back up when he's back, and reevaluate then.

If you're over 30 and you want kids, I would be aggressively seeing other people. This guy isn't on your time frame.

Oh, and don't "push the issue" - he gave you an answer. [/quote]

We are not looking to have kids, both middle aged. Both said we were looking for a life partner in the beginning. The amount of time we spend together currently makes it impractical for me to see other people, plus I haven’t had a desire to as he’s been meeting all my needs wonderfully. Perhaps it’s just time to move on…it seemed to be a good match until it wasn’t I guess.[/quote]

PP here. You don't have to move on, but you do need to accept that you're going to get any commitment from him for the next six months. If you're fine with that, great. Have a fun three months, see what happens. If you're not comfortable with that, then yeah, I'd move on.

One middle ground option is to just decrease your time with him a bit. Keep an iron in the fire, but scale down your time a bit. [/quote]

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