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[quote=Anonymous]I have been on this board for a very long time and seen tons and tons of discussions where the OE kid doesn't look like either parent/parent is mistaken for nanny/child is assumed to be adopted/child got the recessive genes. That helped me get to a place where I didn't care about the resemblance. Plus a kid can take after the mom or the dad. We have one OE and one DE. The OE boy looks like me but the DE kid looks like my spouse. Does your kid resemble the other spouse? Also wait til the personality comes out. My OE kid has a number of my bad traits that I'm happy that the DE kid does not seem to have, which I'm happy about. There is a feeling of seeing yourself that I don't have with my DE kid but I think that could have just as easily happened if he had been OE and just favored my spouse. You can't predict.[/quote]
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