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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need to put up boundaries of unless you complete a residential treatment, IOP, OP and are in continued care and at least 6 months sober, you are not welcome. By even considering him coming home without that is him winning the battle of manipulation. You need to be prepared and accept that someday you might get that phone call you dread and [b]you have to be ok with that. [/b] [/quote] This is mostly good advice but no, she doesn't have to be "ok" with getting that phone call. She is a human being and she has human emotions of her own. She can be scared as hell of it, hate the idea of it, violently opposed to it and still she can execute on not letting this adult come back and live in her home. [/quote]
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