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Reply to "Husband is hesitant to have kids and I don't know what to do"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is just me, but what about being more assertive? Just say “I never would have married you if I knew you didn’t want kids. I get that you’re hesistant but you need to get over it.”[/quote] Ok maybe not "get over it" but this would have been my take. I would have been pissed. Having children was a shared life value that we both very much wanted and discussed before getting married. We wouldn't have gotten past the first 5 dates if my DH had been shaky on wanting kids, I would have been gone. My DH and I would talk about how our lives would change, but it was more in a "wow that's crazy" sort of way, not in a "I don't want that" way. Yes, children change your entire life. It's definitely good to understand and know that. But this isn't new information either. OP, I'm sorry. [/quote]
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