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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ugh. I don't want kids so I understand how he feels. But it's so shi**y to put a thirty something woman in this position. I am a woman and I was always upfront with men I dated that I wanted to get married but probably didn't want kids and they needed to be ok with that. I wasted several years of my thirties dating two different men who claimed they were fine with that and then broke up with me claiming they wanted kids.

Anyway. Some people are ok with having kids or not having kids. Some are not. It sounds like you want kids and are not in the "either way is fine" camp. In that case, I would probably give him a few months to mull this over and if he doesnt want kids, I would start considering divorce. You could also consider freezing your eggs.

Ask yourself, [b]if you find yourself 45 and divorced and widowed, are you going to be ok with the fact you dont have kids?[/b][/quote]

Especially if he then remarries a younger woman and starts a family.  As it is he's making a permanent decision for her without really sacrificing anything himself.[/quote]

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