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[quote=Anonymous]I am going through a tough time dealing with my aging mother with dementia and have posted on it here. I never ever want to put my two kids through what I am going through. So how to ensure that happens? I told my teenagers don’t do what I am doing now dealing with your grandmother. I prefer to go to Switzerland or some other place and die if I get dementia. The problem is once I am at the point of being so needy maybe I won’t be able to make those choices. So what are some good options? I am not sure I will retire with 12k a month for life so I can afford memory care. I read his the Swiss and German government’s are helping citizens and their families go to Thailand for memory care. I would prefer something like that so my kids don’t feel obligated to sacrifice by one of them being close by. Any good plans or options?[/quote]
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