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[quote=Anonymous]I 41F met a man 39 while watching the women’s match at a bar. He small chatted me and I learned that he is originally from El Salvador. We exchanged numbers but his texting has been a bit dry and I notice his texts are in a bit of broken English. I know Spanish but would feel I am insulting him with my poor Spanish. When I try to ask about his other hobbies or interests or family - I get very short answers. We went on one date to which he laughed at my jokes and told me I was beautiful but didn’t have much healthy conversation after that. I then learned that he grew up in Waldorf on said date.

He initially said he thought I was Dominican to which I said no. I am black - southern black. I can’t tell if there is a language barrier, if he is boring, If I’m too chatty/witty or what it is but there doesn’t seem to be much chemistry and I’m not sure if it’s because of culture or what. He has been respectful and has asked me out again. I don’t want to write him off from one date. But it feels rather snoozy  - like I am carrying the load conversation wise. Any guidance?

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