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My Fiance has been acting cold and distant for a few weeks and has started making everything in our relationship about his needs while minimizing my needs. Long story short [b]I have figured out that he has a dismissive avoidant personality type and has been inflicting emotional abuse that is typical of dismissive avoidant personality types upon me.[/b]

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Has anyone else had their "Dismissive Avoidant" partner announce while in a long term relationship that they are done and want you to move out? I'm just trying to figure out what my next steps should be from here.[/quote]

You "figured it out"? Are you a psychologist or psychiatrist?

Sigh. At any rate this is your next step: focus on doing whatever you need to do to protect the welfare of your children who are caught in the crossfire of this nonsense. [/quote]

He’s probably having an affair. [/quote]

It’s not an affair if they’re not married. Why did she wait so long to get married, and Wyatt Earth? Did you buy a house with him before getting married? Clearly, what happened, as they moved in together, and once they were living together he figured out that it wasn’t going to work for him long-term.

OP needs to see if she can buy him out of the house.  The house may be worth $575,000 now, but when you take into account the costs involved in selling (agent commission etc) OP and her fiancé would be lucky to net $530,000 if they sold it today.  That’s the number OP should be working with.  [/quote]

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