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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When did you arrive for the weekend? If it was only a weekend, and you left on Saturday morning, then how much of a weekend was this? Why even go in the first place?

I can see why they are pretty disappointed. Maybe they had special plans for Saturday/Sat night centered around everyone being there, and you disrupted that with your decision. People make preparations to host. It’s time, money, effort, thought.

I’m not saying you didn’t have the right to make that decision, but two things can be true at the same time: you can do what you want to do, but the other people who are affected also have the right to be angry/sad about it, especially if you have a history of being flighty or inconsiderate. Only you know that. [/quote]

Sorry - I see now that you say your arrived Weds night. So you were there Thursday and Friday and then bailed. It’s not the end of the world but based on your reference to it being an inconvenient weekend, and your calling the sibling “a scheduling prima donna” (which they may very well be),  it sounds like you didn’t really want to be there in the first place. That message was probably heard loud and clear, contributing to their annoyance when you took off on Saturday morning. [/quote]

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