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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ex wants our agreement to include 32 pages of language about communication plans, frequency of emails, how fast I must respond to his every email / phone call ...

I would like to only communicate with him via email or text to maintain low-contact, and then only when a change to the schedule is made or if the children are ill or having an emotional issue.[/quote]

First of all, I strongly agree with PP that you should consult a lawyer. This is probably the single most important negotiation you'll face in your lifetime, you don't want to do it alone. Your ex is (presumably) out to get you -- you better be prepared.

In any case, yes, I do think some of the terms your ex is proposing are unreasonable (reviewing baby sitters etc). At the other hand I think it's a good idea to document in detail things like communicating schedule, frequency etc. I guess my point is: the proposed terms may not be reasonable, but the idea to document the heck out of everything IS.

Good luck, and please consider talking to lawyer...[/quote]

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