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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]He’s going to pressure you to move to his city since his kid is younger.[/b] I wouldn’t want to move from my kids’ hometown until they graduate from college. Otherwise they have no “home” to go to where they feel like it’s their home, too.

So it’s too early to know how you will both feel then. Just tell him that neither of you can know how you will feel in C years but that you love him and love how your relationship is working while you have kids to parent. [/quote]

This. He doesn't want to wait another 4.5 years to live together. All of this pressure is building up to him issuing an ultimatum that you move to his city while his kid is still in high school.

His teen probably will be busy with their own activities, so he's going to want you to move in and keep him company.

If I had just launched a few kids, I would not be in a hurry to live with a teenager again. I'd want my free time and not be living with kids.

You're going to need to figure out how to address the issue with the boyfriend. I guarantee that it comes to a head in the next year. 
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