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[quote=Anonymous]My ex wants our agreement to include 32 pages of language about communication plans, frequency of emails, how fast I must respond to his every email / phone call, he must approve any and all babysitters I elect and may contact them to inquire about the care they provided, mandates that we share childcare providers, restricts who can be around our kids when at my home, it's ridiculous and I'm certain a judge would never insert this much language into a court ruled case. I'd like to settle with an agreement out of court, but won't be to abide with this much intrusiveness and extension of his controlling behavior from the marriage into the divorce. Once divorced, in theory, what should two parents have left to discuss, other than the schedule and the health of the children? I would like to only communicate with him via email or text to maintain low-contact, and then only when a change to the schedule is made or if the children are ill or having an emotional issue. That is reasonable and a judge would agree, yes?[/quote]
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