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Reply to "He doesn’t want to see me after I disclosed health results"
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[quote=Anonymous]I applaud you for sharing and I applaud him for pausing to consider. Don’t take it personally if declines to have sex. We all are allowed to determine the level of risk we can support. I am a formerly HPV-positive woman. I got HPV from the partner to whom I lost my virginity. I spent 5 years in treatment, had a bad pap smear, and painful laser surgery before finally clearing a cancer-associated strain. Unfortunately, many men don’t know that they have HPV. If one knew he did, and disclosed it to me, I would not have sex with him. It’s not personal. I’m not obligated to have sex with anyone. Given my personal experience it’s not a risk I’m willing to take. You’re not dirty or slutty or anything else like that. [/quote]
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