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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You'll fix things and do better next time. Try not to worry, OP. If you're a micro-manager, it's likely that you over-analyze too and that your guests didn't think it was so much of a big deal. If it's a problem with serving, let people serve themselves. [/quote] I think they understood and were okay with it, we've all been good friends for years since we moved into the neighborhood together at roughly the same time. I just have a very -BAD- habit of micro-managing and trying to ensure everything goes off without a hitch. I really want to improve on this but I don't know how.[/quote] The fact that you recognize that it’s a problem makes you more self aware than most. Try to pay more attention to the people than all the details. If the people are smiling and happy, you have to really make yourself believe that they are indeed happy and the details are less important than how much they are enjoying themselves. [/quote]
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