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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So my sister and her BF recently got engaged last week. While I am happy for her, she called me and told me to not tell our parents, since my mother is not a huge fan of my sister's fiance. Once she told me that she had failed some classes in college, and still not to tell our parents (she still graduated college though). She has told me another time that she may have been pregnant from said fiance, and not to tell our parents (turns out she wasn't, it was just a pregnancy scare). She has also told me some things where she and her now fiance have done when they are having sex, which makes me terribly uncomfortable. I just feel like I am the middle man here. I don't want to have to keep these so-called secrets all the time. I want to tell her that I can't keep things from our parents or other family members. I won't tell anyone, but I just have anxiety of keeping it. [/quote] My middle sister was one of my best friends growing up. Sometimes there are things siblings can share that don’t need to involve parents or lord forbid other family members. Sometimes my sisters would tell me things as they were working through them and they weren’t ready for our parents to know. Some things they told me that I will take to my grave and I don’t feel in the middle. Not my story to tell. If you can’t parse out your relationship with your sister from the one with your parents, set the boundary with her I guess. [/quote]
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