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[quote=Anonymous]Another single mom by choice.

I'd look for childcare and aftercare options that have the maximum hours possible. You may not use the latest pickup every day, but there may be days you have a late call or meeting and it's good to be able to rely on it.

I would also prioritize remote work so you can do household tasks like laundry between calls or at lunch.

Even more important though is finding a job with little or no travel required. If there is travel required make sure you are making enough income that you could pay for an overnight sitter or fly a relative in to do overnights.

If you can afford it, set a regular date/time that you have a babysitter - perhaps weekly or every other week. This is important for two reasons: First, because you are going to need a parenting break, even if it's just something like getting your nails done or brunch with a friend. But the other reason is to build a relationship with a babysitter that you can call on for unexpected things. If your sitter knows she's getting paid by you every week, she's more likely to say yes when you have an unexpected ask.

Take all of the help that is offered. Drop off playdates. Another adult offering to take one child when you have school or sport commitments with both. Friends dropping off food or meds if you get sick. Don't feel like you have to do it all - accept the help.

And speaking of sick, the best thing I ever did is have my doctor give me a prescription for Zofran. Being a completely solo parent is totally do-able, except if you are violently sick/puking. It's saved me many times when I just needed to get myself back to "able to parent."

Best of luck to you as you navigate your new situation. [/quote]

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