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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Perhaps have a conversation and let her know that you don't think living together is good for your relationship. It really stresses you out to have her leave trash around and to not treat you kindly. If things don't change, she should look for somewhere else to stay next summer. Short visits for holidays are fine, but you'll both be happier and hopefully have a better relationship if you don't live together. Try to say it with kindness and not out of anger. [/quote] I'll add that many of the above suggestions are ways to try to parent her. My guess is she doesn't want to be parented. My proposal is how you'd treat a roommate if you don't want to explode the relationship. You'd just suggest that you make better friends than roommates and make a plan to swap out housing. Everyone should have enough notice to make alternative plans.[/quote]
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