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[quote=Anonymous]My parents never did any planning for the inevitable fact of their not being able to live at home alone together in perpetuity and now I am dealing with trying to make things work for them now that the crisis has arrived. I have my boundaries and I remain very Zen most of the time. But sometimes I am just filled with sadness and anger that they chose to live with denial rather than making a realistic plan for the future. Because now, in addition to all the shit they have to deal with like hit physical infirmities, which is hard enough, they have to deal with that denial breaking apart. It’s very sad to see. I am only 50 and I am ready to move into assisted-living right now, So this will not happen to me and I will not put my children in this situation. [/quote]
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