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[quote=Anonymous]15:37 again. Another question: if she’d said no, she couldn’t do it, would you have pressured her, come up with excuses why actually she could do it, or been upset with her? Or would you have gracefully accepted that no? That speaks to the power dynamics too. The friend I had who asked for a lot of favors never accepted a no. When I did say no, she’d try to “problem solve” to turn it into a yes, or she’d pout about it. That played a big part in making me feel like she was using me, because it’s like didn’t have a choice if I wanted to maintain the friendship. I am not friends with this person anymore and this is a central reason why.[/quote]
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