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[quote=Anonymous]Hmm, the fact that you thanked her profusely and compensated her makes me think you’re fine. BUT one question I’d ask is if you ask her to do other things for you, and if so, why is she the one you ask? Like do all your other friends have kids and she doesn’t? Or all your other friends work and she’s a SAHM? That kind of thing can lead to resentment over time. I once had a friend who asked for lots of favors and none were as big as you describe. But she asked with some frequency and eventually I realized I was her go to for that kind of thing, even though I never asked her for favors (I don’t ask for a lot of favors generally). Even though she was always nice about it, I did start to feel like she was treating me like an assistant and like she did not value my time or consider my time as valuable as hers.[/quote]
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