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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is OP - so you just do everything? How do you deal with the resentment and stay married? He told me the other day he’s so proud that he’s an amazing husband and father and I just stood there stunned that his bar for himself is apparently on the floor. I have contemplated divorce in the past but won’t because of the kids. I have told him multiple times how unfair I find all of this and how lonely and I guess he thinks that’s fine? [/quote]

What do you mean by everything? Coordinating school, medical appointments and therapy while I’m working.  Yes.  And like you, my husband occasionally takes our SN or NT kid to an appointment but it’s rare.  I had lots of resentment for years and then we had a few major situations in the teen years that threw us into crisis mode.  I kind of realized how I want to be the one with the primary control on all of this.  While I want him helping more, it’s really hard when you aren’t at something, you don’t know what’s going on and you are trying to give an update to determine if hospitalization is needed.

So you do what you can, you let a lot slide, outsource everything you can afford and realize some things can be let go and life will be okay.  [/quote]

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