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[quote=Anonymous]I’m in a not great place with my marriage feeling like I do everything and absorb all the random things that come up with our kids and I just don’t know if I can keep it up.  I constantly see advice to drop the drop on the relationship forum - just don’t do x thing and then your spouse will do it! People seem to imply that women are just picky about how and when things are done and it doesn’t really matter that much. But there have been enough times my husband has just not done something important, even if he said he would, that I just can’t trust him. I feel like virtually everything that takes any mental load is important around here! I am not trying to be mom of the year, just get my kids to be ok. I have mostly just done everything aside from the most basic things (or he might take a kid to an occasional appointment if I have it planned out in a way that works for him, which feels increasingly impossible to do) but we are in another panic phase after a big diagnosis for our younger kid and I’m so resentful how I’m dealing with everything alone again. He thinks he’s amazing for taking a kid to an occasional appointment. I don’t have the energy to fight right now but I can feel the resentment building.

What do you do? Just accept this is how it is? [/quote]

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